Do you feel that it is hard to find a woman you are interested in?
Yes, I find it extremely hard to find a woman that I am interested in. I never knew finding a woman to be with could be so difficult. And I would definitely consider myself easy to please.
What are some of the challenges you face trying to find a connection with someone?
The challenges I face in finding a connections are various. My tastes are numerous and various, so I would think that it would be easy to find a woman, but this is not the case. A lot of the women here in the DC metro area are extremely superficial, materialistic, and are about what your position may be. They don't look for characteristics that make up a good man, but they prefer to know what kind of car you drive, do you rent or own, and how much money is in your checking account. Then, once they find these things out, if all looks well, then they're more apt to lay down with you, in hopes of possibly keeping you around for the next 18 years...at least. It truly is a sad state of affairs here in this area.
Do you feel that you have an advantage because there are so many women to pick from?
And there is no advantage due to the ratio of women to men. Just because there are more women than men, it merely means just that...there are more women than men. Those numbers do not effect or inflate the ratio of good women to bad women.
Where do you go to find women that are of interest to you?
I have found that live concerts and shows are usually a great place to meet women. I'm big into music, so if you're there listening to a group that I like, then we automatically have that in common. It's even better if she has a drink in her hand, because I also love going to bars and things of the sort. Bars are also a good place to meet women. Bars, not clubs. Clubs are the worse place to meet women. Another good place to meet women would be the grocery stores here in the area. Now, I'm a bit too shy to approach a woman randomly at a grocery store, but no doubt, I have seen some of the most beautiful women at these establishments. It also shows that they're taking care of themselves and very much into their own health, being that I shop at organic grocery stores.
His Stats: 24yr Old African American, DC
Question: Do you think the club is an optimal place to meet someone? Why/Why Not?
6 comments:
wow do you we have any women from DC reading these comments??? Although I am not from that location I am confident in saying birds of a feather flock together". I am sure that there are so many women that do not fit into that superficial category that he has described, perhaps he should ask himself why he is always running into that specific type of woman....
Sometimes we need look inward to see if perhaps the qualities we are most attracted to could be associated with the qualities we claim to dislike.
just my 2 cents.
Product Junkie Diva
love the interview! Yes going on a date nowadays is like going on a job interview: do you rent or own...lol...
Hey PJD,
I totally agree with your 2cents and will put it in the bank! lol I totally think he is inviting these women into his life or surrounding himself with them. It makes me wonder how many other men out there are spending time with the women that they think they want rather then take the time to find a real connection with someone that's a right fit for them. I could say the same statement about women also...
Thanks for reading!
This is an interesting concept you have here. I think it would be great if you had a picture of the guys you interviewed.
Hey Afrodite,
It would be awesome to have pictures! However, at this point in time it's not possible.I think most of the guys are more forth coming with their responses if they know that their faces aren't posted up for all to see. lol But definately a great idea!
Thanks so very much for stopping by!
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