My First Response- The Artist

I don’t mind answering your questions, or giving you a male perspective. Though I do hope that you realize, just because your receiving information from a man, doesn’t mean that it should be subscribed to the whole male species. Therefore, I'll give you Vincent’s perspective, and nothing more...

Do you feel that it is hard to find a woman you are interested in?

• Yes. Mainly because most women that I find myself coming across, aren’t as artist-or open minded as I'd prefer. The kind of woman that I’m attracted to, is free spirited, insightful, and liberated sexual & spiritually.

What are some of the challenges you face trying to find a connection with someone?

• I currently don’t face any challenges. Since I’ve given up trying to connect, it's a lost cause attempting to connect with others. Most people don’t know themselves, and aren’t comfortable with themselves, so how can I expect them to open up to me.

Do you feel that you have an advantage because there are so many women to pick from?

• I actually think the opposite. Quantity never equals up to quality. I think that most women aren’t "woman" enough to be with me truthfully. Sadly, a lot of our women don’t covet depth, and the supreme power of being a woman.
  

Where do you go to find women that are of interest to you?

• I go nowhere. I focus on my son, and my artwork. If I come across a woman who's worth my time, I'll appreciate her, other than that, I don’t think twice about finding anything other than more synergy and inspiration to complete my work.
  

You spoke of having an honest connection with someone. But it’s my belief that the dating game is just that, a game, set up to get us away from honesty and truthfulness...........How can man be honest with another, if he still grapples with being honest with himself? Look at the facade that black women engulf themselves in, from the hair weaves-to fake nails-eye contacts-and euro boogie approaches toward success and advancement. Than they turn around and ask for depth from a black man. And black man are no different, we emulate ignorant depictions of us on tv, than wonder why we aren’t respected at home.

His Stats: 27yr old African American from Upstate NY

Please tell me what you think....